Much appreciated. Gender was very much a nightmare for me and mine during the 20th century.

The trans community has been very helpful, kind, and supportive but it is not their job to educate me.

I like my body, I just don't like the role of "dumb blonde" that was assigned to me to balance out my profoundly gifted gender-nonconforming sibling.

I'll never know whether they were a very butch cis woman or a trans man.

The tragedy is that I don't think they knew either. They died in 1992.

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